茶葉因沸水，
才能釋放出
深蘊的清香，
生命也只有遭遇一次次挫折，
才能留下人生的幽香 …… 。
懂得時時感恩的人
.... 是最幸福的.
LA, California
2010年11月9日星期二
2010年11月2日星期二
You CAN feel better
It is important to remember that it is your thoughts and feelings together that create with the law of attraction, and you cannot separate them. Also remember that it's your feelings that are summing up your overall frequency and telling you what you are creating in this moment.
So how are you feeling right now? Could you feel better? Well then, do what it takes right now to feel better.
LA, California
In Control
"Except our own thoughts, there is nothing absolutely in our power."
RENE DESCARTES (1596 - 1650)
LA, California
The Way to Oversome the Negative Thought
Here is a way to stop negative thought: Focus your mind on your heart. Breathe in deeply, keeping your focus on your heart. Really concentrate on feeling love in your heart. Breathe out holding your focus on your heart and feeling the love in your heart. Repeat this a total of seven times.
When you do this correctly, you will feel a very big difference in your mind and your whole body. You will feel more peaceful, you will feel lighter, and you will have stopped those negative thoughts.
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Who you are?
Negative thoughts are not who you are. Your true nature is all good. So if by chance a negative thought comes, say to yourself, "These thoughts are not mine, and they do not belong with me. I am all good and I have only good thoughts for myself and everyone."
Now you are speaking the truth!
LA, California
2010年10月27日星期三
The Way of Solution
When you focus with someone on a problem they are having, you are not helping them or you, because you are both adding energy to the problem. You are also both attracting more "like" problems to you.
Knowing this, it's very important for you and the other person to focus on what you both want. The person with the problem should be encouraged to speak about what they want instead of about the problem, which is what they don't want. The problem arose in the first place from the person thinking or talking about what they didn't want, so the chain reaction must stop. Help those close to you by encouraging them to speak the words of what they want. That's always the solution.
LA, California
You Are The Cause
You can turn your life into paradise, but the only way you can do it is to make the inside of you a paradise. There is no other way.
You are the cause; you life is the effect.
LA, California
Live harmony with the law...
The law of attraction is infallible, and every single person is getting what they are asking for, even though most of the time each person is not aware that they are asking for what they don't want. There is such absolute beauty in the law, which is so responsive and giving in every single moment so that we can experience our lives.
The law never changes - we must learn how to live in harmony with the law. that is the greatest task for every single human being.
LA, California
2010年9月8日星期三
Make it a habit !
Write down all the great things about everyone you know. Make a huge list of all the wonderful things about you. Compliment people wherever you go. Praise every single thing you see. Be a ray of sunshine to everyone you meet, and make their day better for having seen you. Say "Thank you" at every turn. Walk, talk, think, and breathe appreciation and gratitude.
LA, California
Be Joyful..
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"In every word you use, there is a power germ which expands and projects itself in the direction your word indicates, and ultimately develops into physical expression. For example, you wish the consciousness of joy. Repeat the word "JOY" secretly, persistently, and emphatically. The repetition of the word "joy" sets up a quality of vibration which causes the joy germ to begin to expand and project itself until your whole being is filled with joy. This is not a mere fancy, but a truth."GENEVIEVE BEHREND (1881-1960)
Your Invisible Power
LA, California
Joy Attracts Joy..
Whevener you remember, at any time of the day, say "I AM JOY". Say it hundreds of times a day if you like. Say it often, but say it very, very slowly, giving equal emphasis to each word. I - AM - JOY. Feel the meaning of the words as you slowly say them, and experience as much of a feeling of joy within you as you can. Build on that feeling every single day. You will get better and better at it.
Feel that joy inside you more than you react to outside circumstances, and you will change the outside circumstances.
Joy attracts joy.
LA, California
2010年9月1日星期三
Belief adds Power to your Words
The effective use of affirmation depends entirely on how much you believe them when you say them. If there is no belief, then the affirmation is just words that have no power. Belief adds power to your words.
When you believe what you say, you just created it, no matter what it is.
LA, California
Be AWARE with your THOUGHTS
The law of attraction is like a giant photocopying machine, giving back to you exactly what you are thinking and feeling. If things are coming into your life that you do not want, then it is certain that most of the time you are not aware of the thoughts you thinking or of your feelings. Become aware of your feelings so when you are not feeling good you can stop and change the way you feel. And how do you do that? You think thoughts that make you feel good.
Remember that you cannot think good thoughts and feel bad, because your feelings are the result of your thoughts.
LA, California
Einstein - The Power of Gratitude
Every single religion speaks of giving thanks. All the sages and saviors of the world demonstrated the use of gratitude in all their teachings. The greatest human beings who have ever lived showed us the way with gratitude, and by their example became shining lights in our history.
Surely this is why Einstein said Thank you hundred of times every single day!
LA, California
Take the Easy Path
Our natural state of being is joy. It takes so much energy to think negative thoughts, to speak negative words, and to feel miserable. The easy path is good thoughts, good words, and good deeds.
Take the easy path.
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Learn from the Feedback
Your advancement in mastering the law of attraction is based on learning and then practicing what works best for you.
Every day you can see what you have been thinking through what is happening in your life. Your entire world is a movie, showing you how you are going. You are not in the dark - you are getting feedback. Learn from the feedback. Observe what comes to you easily and think about what you did for that thing to come easily.
Know yourself, and you will become a master of the law of attraction.
LA, California
Man is what He Believes
"Man is what he believes."
ANTON CHEKHOV (1860-1904)
The Notebook of Anton Chekhov
LA,California
2010年8月31日星期二
Make-Believe
When you were a small child playing make-believe, do you remember how convincing your imagination was to you? Well, this is what you must do when you want anything. Secretly, inside yourself, pretend that you have what you want already. For exmaple, if you want friends, make believe or pretend that you have great friends now.
The moment you tip the balance by imagining and feeling that you have great friends now more than noticing that you don't, you will have great friends.
This simple formula applies to everything.
LA, California
Practice your FEELING
Get into the feeling of having what you want now, and keep feeling that. It will be the most wonderful feeling in the world. As you practice the feeling, it will get stronger and stronger. You will begin to feel that you already have what you want. When you do this, the law must respond.
Remember that the law has never failed in anything it has undertaken, and it will not fail in your case either.
LA, California
和另一女人約 -- (游永濟的異言堂)
結婚了廿一年後，我發現了一種別出心裁的方法，
可以讓愛的火花永保新鮮。
不久以前 ，我和另一位女士約會，其實那還是我妻子的主意，
有一天她說：「我知道你很愛她。」我很驚訝，立刻爭辯說：
「但我愛的是妳呀！」「我知道，但你也愛她呀！」
我妻子要我去看的女士是我的母親。
她已經寡居了十九年，然而我忙碌的工作和身為二個孩子父親的責任，令我分身乏術，
以致很少有時間和她相聚。
那晚，我打電話給她，邀約她第二天和我一起吃晚餐和看電影。
「怎麼了，你還好嗎？」她問道。
母親是那種會認為晚上那麼晚打電話，又突然邀約她
，一定不會有什麼好事的人。
「我想如果有機會和妳單獨約會，一定很有意思。」我回答。
她想了一會兒，然後說：「我非常樂意。」
那個星期五下班以後，我開車去接她時，心裡有一點緊張，
因為從未嚐試過這樣的約會 。
當我到達她家時，我看她對這樣的約會，似乎也有一點緊張。
她在門內等著，身上穿著大衣， 裡面那件禮服
還是最後一次慶祝結婚紀念日所穿的呢！
她的頭髮還特意捲了一下，臉上 的微笑像天使一般。
上了車後，她得意洋洋地說：「我告訴我的朋友，我要和我的兒子外出約會，他們都好
羨慕，迫不及待要聽聽我們約會的情形。」
我們去一家雖不豪華，但十分雅致，溫暖舒適的餐廳。
我母親挽住我的臂彎，好像第一夫人一般。
入座以後，我必須幫她看菜單點菜，
因為她的眼睛現在只有大的字才看得見。
用餐一半時，我抬起頭來，看到母親正在凝視我，
嘴角帶著懷舊的笑容說：「記得當你小時候，總是我為你看菜單的。」「那現在妳正好
可以休息，輪到我來為妳服務了。」我回答。
一面享用晚餐，我們一面聊天，聊得很愉快，
談了許多最近幾年來，各自生命中的一些 事。
我們聊得太久了，所以趕不上電影。當我送她回到家門口，
她說「我要再和你一起外出 ，但下次讓我作東好嗎？」我答應了。
回家後，妻子問我：「你的晚餐約會如何？」
「非常有意思，比我想像的好多了！」~我 回答。
幾天以後，母親因心臟病猝發而去世。這事發生得太突然了，讓我完全措手不及。
不久以後，我收到一封信，裡面是上次我和母親約會的那家餐館的一張收據，上面有一
張字條寫著：「我已先付了賬，因為我確定自己不可能再有機會去了，但我還是付了兩
人份的賬 ──你和你的妻子。
你絕對想不到那一晚的約會對我有多大的意義，我愛你。」
從那一刻起，我深深體會，一定要及時說：
「我愛你」，並且要常常撥出時間給我們所愛的人。
世上沒有任何事比自然如來因緣和你的家庭更重要，
多花時間和他們在一起，因為這事絕不能拖延到「以後有時間時?」。
「樹欲靜而風不止，子欲養而親不待 」 是人生一大憾事。
LA, California
2010年8月28日星期六
Frequency of your Though
Any words you speak have a frequency, and the moment you speak them they are released into the Universe. The law of attraction responds to all frequencies, and so it is also responding to the words that you speak. When you use very strong words, such as "terrible," "shocking," and "horrible" to describe any situation in your life, you are sending out an equally strong frequency, and the law of attraction must respond by bringing that frequency back to you.
The law is impersonal, and simply matches your frequency. Do you see how important it is for you to speak strongly about what you WANT, and not to use strong words about what you DON'T WANT?
LA, California
Don't allow yourself to be too Comfortable
If you had had a perfect existence up until now, where everything had gone exactly right, you might not have a strong determination and desire to change your life. It's all of the apparently "negative" things that happen to us which give us a huge desire to change things. That huge desire that arises within you is like a magnetic fire, and it is very powerful.
Be grateful for everything that caused that fire to ignite a massive desire within you, because that fire of desire will give you strength and determination, and you will change your life.
LA, California
2010年8月24日星期二
Happiness brings Money!
If you have "needing money" in your vibration, then you will keep attracting needing money. You have to find a way of being happy NOW, feeling good NOW, and being in joy NOW, without the money, because those great feelings are how you will feel with the money.
Money doesn't bring happiness - but happiness brings money!
LA, California
2010年8月20日星期五
A Mirror Effect
When you ask for happiness and a beautiful life, ask not just for you, but for everyone. When you ask for something better, ask not just for you, but for everyone. By all means ask for abundance and health for you, but also ask for it to be given to everyone.
Can you imagine what would happen if six billion people asked for these things for you? The answer is "WOW"!!!
LA, California
Two Paths...
When there is a big change of energy which affects our lives, we often label it as "bad" and cause ourselves sorrow, pain, and suffering by resisting that change. But you always have a choice.
In the Universe there is never just one way, and you are never trapped with no way out, no matter what has occurred. In every circumstance and moment of your life there are two paths available to you. The two paths are the positive and the negative, and YOU are the one who choose which path you will take.
LA, California
2010年8月13日星期五
Appreciation attracts Appreciation!
To allow the Universe to move you in your life to happier and better things, you are going to need to look around you and appreciate the good things here and now. Seek the beautiful things and count the blessings of where you are. Dissatisfaction will not bring the happier and the better into your life. Dissatisfaction roots you to the spot where you currently are, but appreciation for what you have attracts the happier and better to you.
Remember that you are a magnet! Appreciation attracts appreciation!
LA, California
Begin to think Good Thoughts each day
Do not worry at all about negative thoughts, and do not try to control them. All you have to do is begin to think good thoughts each day.
Plant as many good thoughts as you can in each day. As you begin to think good thoughts you will attract more and more good thoughts, and eventually the good thoughts will wipe out the negative thoughts altogether.
LA, California
Just Do It with Faith
All you have to do is ask and believe, and then get yourself on the receiving frequency of goodness. You don't actually have to do anything else. The Universe will do all the moving of things, including moving you.
When you ask and believe, you are getting yourself out of the way so the Universe can do its work.
LA, California
The Power of Gratitude
We can never bring anything to us unless we are grateful for what we have. In fact, if somebody was completely and utterly grateful for everything, they would never have to ask for anything, because it would be given to them before they even asked.
That is the power of Gratitude.
LA, California
Great Life
"If we live good lives, the times are also good. As we are, such are the times."
SAINT AUGUSTINE OF HIPPO (354-430)
LA, California
2010年8月7日星期六
Emanate Your Dream
The Universe has unlimited ways to bring your dream about, and I can assure you that when you emanate your dream on the inside of you, it will appear in the outside world in a way that you could never have imagined.
Just get your emanation happening and leave the rest to the Universe.
LA, California
U r a Transmission Center
You are a transmission center of the Universe. You are emitting a frequency to the Universe every second and you are receiving transmissions back every second. To Create what you want, you must telegraph your desire without breaking the transmission, and you do that by holding within you the knowledge that your desire has manifested.
But if you begin to have thoughts that your desire is not here, and if you begin to doubt, you just broke the transmission. The Universe has lost your signal and instead has received your new signal that you do not have your desire. The Universe respond unfailingly to your new signal, and you receive what you are transmitting: my desire is not here!
All you have to do is shift yourself back on to the frequency of having what you want, and the Universe can deliver it to you.
But if you begin to have thoughts that your desire is not here, and if you begin to doubt, you just broke the transmission. The Universe has lost your signal and instead has received your new signal that you do not have your desire. The Universe respond unfailingly to your new signal, and you receive what you are transmitting: my desire is not here!
All you have to do is shift yourself back on to the frequency of having what you want, and the Universe can deliver it to you.
LA, California
2010年8月5日星期四
2010年7月26日星期一
Organize Your Photos
Whether it takes one night or several days, spend time with yourself and your past by organizing your photos. Start by collecting stray photos from every corner of your house. Make piles sorted by date. Put a Post-it note on the top photo with the year and wrap an elastic band around the piles.
Start putting the pictures into albums in chronological order. Pay attention on the photos --- how far back do they go? How much has changed? Look how far you've come! Enjoy this personal time to reminisce. The key to happiness is to be thankful for all of the fun you're had with the great people you know.
LA, California
Sadness is part of the human experience
Sociologist Emile Durkheim wrote, "Man could not live if he were entirely impervious to sadness." It is true that sadness is an important part of the natural life cycle. It often takes something tragic to make us realize all that we have to be thankful for. Don't panic if you are feeling down --- take a deep breath and remeber that you are only human. Understand that this too shall pass and you will be happy again.
LA, California
2010年7月24日星期六
「逆境菩薩」-- Janice
某大公司招聘職業經理人，應徵者雲集，其中不乏高學歷、工作經驗豐富的人。
最後，老闆將親自面試最後的六名應徵者。可是當面試開始時，主考官卻發現考場上多了一個人，就問道：「有不是參加面試的人嗎？」
坐在最後面的一個男子站起來：「先生，我在第一輪就被淘汰了，但我想參加一下面試。」
所有的人都笑了，就連站在門口為客人倒茶水的老頭也忍不禁笑。
主考官不以為然的問：「你連考試第一關都過不了，又有什麼必要參加這次面試呢？」
這個男子說：「因為我掌握了別人沒有的財富，我本人就是一大財富。」
大家又一次哈哈大笑了，認為該男子或許是頭腦有毛病，或許是狂妄自大。
該男子繼續說：「我雖然學歷不算太高，也沒擔任過重要職務，可是我卻有著十年的工作經驗，
曾在十二家公司任過職……」 主考官插話：「雖然你的學歷和職稱都不高，但是工作十年倒是不錯。
不過你換了十二家公司，這可不是一種令人欣賞的行為。」
男子說：「先生，我沒有主動要換工作，是那十二家公司先後倒閉了。」
大家又是一陣大笑。一個考生說：「你真是一個道地的失敗者！」
男子笑了笑：「不，這不是我的失敗，而是那些公司的失敗。這些失敗積累成我自己的財富。」
這時，倒茶老頭走上前，給主考官添茶水。
男子繼續說：「我很瞭解那十二家公司，我與同事努力想挽救，雖然沒有成功，
但我知道錯誤與失敗的每一個細節，並從中學到了許多東西，這是別人所學不到的。
很多人只是追求成功，而我，更有經驗避免錯誤與失敗！……」
男子停頓了一下，又接著說：「我知道，成功的經驗大部分相似，容易模仿，而失敗的原因卻各有各的不同。
用十年學習成功經驗，不如用同樣的時間經歷錯誤與失敗，所學的東西反而更多、更深刻。
我認為，別人的成功經歷很難成為我們的財富，而恰恰是別人的失敗過程卻是我們不可多得的財富！」
該男子說完，做出轉身出門的樣子，又突然回過頭：「這十年經歷的十二家公司，培養鍛煉了我對人、
對事、對未來的敏銳洞察力，舉個小例子吧——真正的主考官不是您，而是這位倒茶的老伯……」
在場所有的人都感到驚訝，目光轉向老頭。
老頭在驚訝之際，很快恢復了平靜，笑了笑：「很好！你被錄取了，因為我想知道—你是如何知道這一切的？」
啟示:
相信誰不也願意從事十二家公司，而公司都相繼倒閉。更多的時候，我們埋怨我們倒楣，卻沒有換個角度想想：塞翁失馬，焉知非福。
從這個故事，我們也能得出一個結論：錯誤和失敗並不是100%的，錯誤和失敗多了，只要懂得去總結整理，就是一筆財富，因為可以讓我們學會去避免同樣的錯誤與失敗。
另一方面，我們也明白了世事洞明皆學問，人情練達即文章。
這名男子能從倒茶老頭的神情、氣質、舉止等看出他是這家公司的老闆，說明他是一個觀察力很強的人。
而冰凍三尺非一日之寒，這樣的洞察力不是一朝一夕能夠練成的，這需要長期的積累，需要在每一個細節的觀察中不斷的訓練和提升。
向逆境乾杯，跟敵人致敬，打擊你最深的人，一定是你的敵人？錯了，他可能是你最親密的朋友、親人。
打擊你最深的人，一定是負面的？錯了，他可能造就一個更堅強的你。
原諒敵人往往比原諒朋友容易。因為，我們從來不會對敵人付出感情，但是對朋友、親人，
我們也許付出了最真摯的情感；付出了，就希望得到回報，得不到回報，反而被出賣、背叛，
在情感上就會有著被欺騙的傷痛和悲哀。
原諒敵人，那是一種風度和器量的表現；我們之所以可以原諒敵人，那是因為覺得自己在他之上，
有權力去赦免他，甚至可憐他、原諒他，就是不想跟他一般見識。
但是，我們對朋友卻是小器的很，在內心始終無法真正的原諒他。
人生中有許多不可思議的地方，看似弔詭，其實透著玄機，例如說，越是親密的人，往往互相傷害；
愈是自己的親人，反而傷你最深，那些看輕你的人、傷害你的人，可能是你的父母、丈夫、妻子、情人、兄弟、姐妹，甚至是你最好的朋友、同事。
雖然如此，這些人都可能是你人生中的「逆境菩薩」，也是你人生中的「逆增上緣」，因為，有了他們的「激勵」，你才有向上的勇氣及能量。
人生到底是上升，或者下墜，完全取決於你如何看待人生，倘若在遭受打擊時，仍能體會到生命的美好之處，
當你細細品味痛苦的滋味，慢慢咀嚼失意帳惘之時，你就永遠都不會忘記這種「刻苦銘心」的感受。
此時若能化挫折為動力，化困境為動能，那些打擊你的人，就是上天給你最好的禮物，也是上天給你最好的成全。
其實，我們都應學會感謝，感謝那些曾經讓我們跌了一大跤的朋友，因為，成功是來自貴人的提攜，
也來自小人的激勵，若沒有重重跌倒過，就不會想要風風光光再站起來。
向逆境乾杯，跟敵人致敬，英雄往往就是誕生在這樣的時刻， 這也是你重新認識自己的關鍵。
只有面對挫折時，還能夠微笑以對，在困境中學會了感謝，你才能掙脫人生的困境, 走向光明未來。
因為，真正有價值的人，是在逆境中含笑的人。
LA, California
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