『隨波逐流』皆因不能『力爭上游』
Seattle
2010年3月27日星期六
Collect the Positive Experience
The way we view things is a by-product of our daily experiences. We all have positive experience every day but many of us concentrate on our negative ones.
For one week, keep a list of positve experience. No enjoyment is too small to record. For example, take note if you tried a new flavor of coffee you enjoyed or found a shortcut that reduces your commute by 10 minutes. At the end of the week, notice how many little joys life presented, and be sure to repeat them.
LA, California
You're the Creation of God
According to Planet Project, a global Internet polling company that polled 380,000 people in more than 225 countries, just 35 percent of all people enjoy the view when they look in the mirror. That mean 65 percent of the world's population looks in the mirror, they are disappointed!
Improve your outlook by enjoying what you see. Look in the miorror each morning and find something about yourself that pleases you. Say, " I have lovely eyes," or "I like the way my hair looks today." After a while, you will learn to love the whole image.
LA, California
Sence of Self-worth
Anne frank wrote in her famous diary. "how wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.", there are many levels at which you can volunteer.
Investigate the charitable programs in your area. Perhaps you can serve meals at a church once a month, or tutor homeless children at the local shelter. The time you give to others is often as valuable to them (or more so) as money.
Giving your time to worthy cause also helps put your own problems in perspective, gives you a sense of belonging within a communithy, and enhances your sense of self-worth.
LA, California
2010年3月25日星期四
Positve Thinking!
Anybody who thinks negative thoughts about someone else has those negative thoughts return to them multiplied. It doesn't matter how many people are thinking negatively about someone; if that person is in joy those thoughts can never reach them, because they are on a different frequency.
Instead, alll the negative thoughts will multiply and return to the people who were thinking them. No-one else can bring negativity into our lives through their thoughts, unless we allow our frequency to lower to the same negative frequency as theirs.
LA, California
Your frequency...
The entire world and every single detail in your day are all showing you the frequency within you. The evidence of your frequency is speaking to you in every moment through the people that you experience, the circumstances, and the events.
Life is mirroring back to you what you are holding inside you.
LA, California
2010年3月17日星期三
Experience the freedom that Forgiveness brings
Theology professor Lewis B. Smedes has written, “To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.” Bearing these ugly feelings is extremely unhealthy, and can cause chronic health and emotional problems. Lighten your load by learning how to forgive.
This does not mean that you must forget the event. It simply mean you set yourself free from negativity, resentment, and anger. Feeling free is one of the many keys to being a more joyful person.
LA, California
Apologize..
Most relationships become stronger after an argument that ends with a heartfelt apology. For this reason, American poet Bryan H. McGill has noted, “There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.”
Both receiving and offering an apology can help reinstate lost confidence in a partner, friend, or coworker. Strong relationships are built on trust, which comes from knowing that people can take responsibility for themselves and also graciously accept flaws in others.
Therefore, accept or give a deserved apology to further enforce the bonds between you and the pople you care about.
LA, California
2010年3月12日星期五
You are the key...
If you want to attract appreciation for what you do, then move through your life appreciating and complimenting others.
If you find fault with another, then you just brought others finding fault with you. If you judge another, then you just brought judgment to you. And if you appreciate others, you will bring appreciation to you. You have to make the quality dominat in you first, before you can attract it in your outside world.
LA, California
2010年3月11日星期四
說好話
美國著名的教育家和演講口才藝術家卡內基，小時候是一個非常調皮的小男孩。
LA, California
Overriding your intention...
If you are visualizing all of the time and nothing is happening, it means that you are overriding your intention in some other powerful way that you are not aware of.
What are you thinking? what words are you speaking? What action are you taking? If you're not sure, ask the law of attraction to show you where you are overriding your intention, and it will be shown to you clearly.
LA, California
是我的福氣...
(摘自國語日報)~
鵑鵑原本在美國工作，公司給她的待遇很好，再加上單身，生活過得很逍遙。
前一陣子她住在臺灣的母親罹患腦瘤，開刀後復原得很慢。
鵑鵑立刻請調回臺，找了間公寓，把母親接到身邊就近照顧。
鵑鵑不是家中的獨生女，上有大姐，下有弟弟，但是只有她放棄原本的生活，承擔服侍母親的責任。
她大姐偶爾給她一筆錢，當作是孝親費，此外很少露面，更別談關心自己母親的現況，
好像出點錢就可以心安理得的把母親推給妹妹。
我們這些鵑鵑的朋友看不過去，紛紛提醒她要找大姐和弟弟談清楚母親的事。
鵑鵑保持她一貫的優雅從容，靜靜的說：「照顧媽媽是我的福氣。」
原本為她打抱不平的我們，聽了這句話，頓時沉默起來。
難怪從來不曾聽她抱怨，自認享有「福氣」的人，怎麼會向人訴苦呢？
她總是耐著性子尋找適合母親的飲食配方和復健機構，珍惜與母親相處的時光，
鵑鵑忙著張羅都來不及了，哪有閒功夫喊累叫煩哪！
在鵑鵑細心打點下，病情不大樂觀的母親，身體竟一天天好起來，
母親想要康復的意願也啟動了，甚至會離開臥房到屋外走走。
原本令人覺得沉重的擔子，因為鵑鵑懂得惜福，居然化作豐盛的禮物。
現在鵑鵑成了大家的強心劑，每當我們遇到困難，或者受了委屈，習慣性的退縮、
放棄、抱怨或指責別人時，總會想起她的話。
在我們這一群朋友中，開始流行一種句型：「能多做一點是我的福氣。 」
「孩子不聽話，耐著性子引導他是我的福氣。 」
「擠公車沒位子坐是我的福氣。」
那麼能認識你也是我的福氣
說這些話的時候，我們多少帶著點自我解嘲的意味，有時也是開玩笑,
但不知不覺中，我們看待周遭人事物的態度有了明顯變化，原來好福氣也是會傳染的。
古今中外有很多人因為別人的一句話而深受感動，甚至豁然開朗；由於「一句話」而改變一生的事例，更是多不勝數。
LA, California
2010年3月10日星期三
Ask, Believe & Receive...
It takes no time for the Universe to manifest what you want. It isas easy to manifest one dollar as it is to manifest one million dollars.
LA, California
Emit the frequency...
Believe involves acting, speaking, and thinking as though you have already received what you're asked for. When you emit the frequency of having received it, the law of attraction moves people, events, and circumstances for you to receive.
LA, California
2010年3月9日星期二
The Power of Words...
Many verses Proverbs speak of the tongue and how to use it as positive influence. Leaders who use words skillfully increase their influence. Leaders who understand the power of their words accomplish they proclaim justice and are blessed, speak hope for the future, becoming a fountain of life to others, speak forth wisdom and save othersfrom ruin. They know when silence is more powerful than words and their words feed and nourish many others.
LA, California
2010年3月3日星期三
Limitation may be your Strength..
An empowering way to become happy with who you are is to turn you limitation into a skill, asset, or trademark. Become a leader in your community and show others that you limitation is also you greatest STRENGTH.
LA, California
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